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Mistress in Lisbon, Portugal - Catarina is the most professional dominatrix in Lisbon, Portugal. Domination, BDSM, Femdom, Kink, Fetish Queen & High-class companion - kinky-cat.com

FAQ (FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS)

1. Do you work with any agency or are you 100% independent?

No agencies, no scams. I am my own boss! When you text/call, you talk to me!


2. Are you available 24/7? Can I book you anytime (incall or outcall)?

I'm a "hustler" who works 7 days a week but I'm not available 24hrs! I do my best to schedule my sessions and my agenda is flexible (however) it's easier if you contact me as far in advance as possible. 1 or 2 days to plan better or at least 4 hours prior notice. Otherwise, it's a question of luck! I might be available at the moment or not. It's important to underline that I'm not a full-time sex worker and I don't stay indoors all day answering calls and waiting for customers. I have other activities and businesses to run in between. I will make time whenever you contact me with a serious intention to book my services. 


3. Do you work from home? Can I meet you at "your place"?
I don't work from home. When you book an incall, you meet me at my workplace (a private studio or a hotel room) never at my house!

4. Do you offer 30 min. sessions?
No. The minimum time for an outcall is one hour and an incall is 90 min.


5. Can I negotiate the price?
My 1-hour rate isn't in any case negotiable. When you book me for multiple hours, overnight, travel, or a couple of days, then yes, we can negotiate. If you want to get on my good side, don't try to "bargain" the price. 


6. I had some bad experiences before with fake escorts! How do I know you're real? Can I ask you for face pics or a quick video call?
First of all, I'm verified on every external website where I pay for advertising. You can see a watermark in the photos proving it. Secondly, I have many reviews there from clients who booked my services and recommended me. What I usually do to make you feel more confident is to send you a couple of non-professional "selfie" photos taken with a phone at my photoshoots or at my workplace wearing the same outfits that you saw in my ads. I don't send face pics or do any "quick" video calls. 


7. I have a "great deal" to propose to you... Can I meet you first to see you and discuss this? Maybe have a drink with you (for free without any confirmation)?
Of course not. I suggest you stick with dating apps to meet girls for free. In my experience, if you had a great deal to propose, you would call directly and go straight to the point instead of texting me with this type of "tempting offer". I'm open to giving you as much info as possible. But don't ask me to participate in this kind of "audition" ok? I'm an experienced professional, not a beginner. My time is money and if you're not sure if you want to pay for it, don't book it and look for somebody else. Simple as that. 


8. I'm new to all of this. What if I don't like the experience? Can I get a refund?
If you're a "newbie", you might want to relax and start with something soft like one of my sensual massages for example. This way, you can be sure you enjoy the experience with a professional masseuse. I don't refund anybody. And once again, if you're not sure, don't do it. 


9. I'm not 18 years old yet. Can I book a session?
No. I don't accept underage guys. Even if you tell me you're an adult, I'll figure it out on the phone or require you to show me your ID when we meet if I suspect you're still a minor.


10. I'm 21, introvert, autistic, and still a virgin. Would you plan a session with me even with zero experience?
Yes, I would. And it will be important for me to know beforehand about your fantasies, the things you would be comfortable with, and things you wouldn't in a special moment like that. Make sure you read carefully all the services that I offer and take a moment to reflect before you carry on with your decision... Text or email me only when you're sure. I'd appreciate a brief description of your ideal first-time experience.


11. I'm a basic guy. Not interested in any of your kink services or sensual massages. I'm here to figure out if you provide "full-service"? Because it's not clear on your ads if you offer A-LEVEL, OWO, CIM, COF, BBS, MSOG, etc...

I don't provide any of those services. That's why you can't find them in my paid ads on external websites. All the services that I provide are listed here on my official web page (in the appropriate sections) you can check them out. 


12. Do you have a "girlfriend" to join us? Is the other girl included or extra?
I have a nice colleague who can join us for a threesome. She's also an escort, not my "girlfriend" and obviously, she's not included. Her participation is extra! Sessions with her must be planned with anticipation.


13. Do you work with your "boyfriend"? When I book a cuckolding session (or MFM threesome) is the other guy included or extra?
Whether you book him for a cuckolding session or a threesome, his participation is extra. He's not my "boyfriend" and he's not included. He's a colleague who joins whenever he's requested just like the girl does. I work with them occasionally and once again, planning is required.


14. We are two friends, is the rate the same if there's another guy present and watching?
The rate is always higher whenever there is one more participant. Whether from my side or yours.


15. We are a group of guys organizing a bachelor party and we would like to book one hour of your strip show/lap dance for the bachelor. Would you be open to a private session with him afterward?
Yes, I can do both. But in that case, it's a session of two hours instead of one just for the show.


16. We are a couple, is it the same rate or do I have to pay extra if my GF/wife participates?
Yes, you have to pay extra. If she participates, it's a session for couples. It's important to note that I'm not bisexual or lesbian. I don't "go gay for pay" like the majority of escorts who lie about their orientation and fake it. I want you to know what to expect from me without disappointment. 


17. In terms of payments, how does it work? Do I have to pay a deposit first? What if something comes up and I need to cancel? Will you refund me? The girls that I meet regularly accept the payment at the end...
Well, if the girls that you meet regularly let you pay at the end, that's because you're THEIR regular client, not mine. I always ask you for the payment first as a precaution.

This is how I work: When you're interested in booking an incall session, I'll certainly ask you for a deposit of 50% and you can pay the remaining amount in cash when we meet before our session starts. When it's an outcall session (in the city where I am based) the process is simpler! The pre-payment of a deposit won't be required (it's optional) and you can pay me directly in cash when I arrive. If you are calling from a different city, then again, I'll ask you for a deposit. (Read questions 29, 30, 31) for +info about this!

In case something goes wrong and you miss our meeting after paying the deposit of 50% this amount will be kept and used to reschedule a future real-time session.


18. Can I pay with a credit card, PayPal, crypto, or any other method? Or only cash?
You can pay the deposit by other methods. For the remaining amount, I'll require cash. Only regular customers can pay by other methods in full.


19. Different currencies as well or only euros?
I also accept Pounds, Swiss francs, and Dollars. 


20. Do you provide webcam sessions? 
No. I'm not a "cam girl" and I don't work from home. Even with the pandemic outbreak, I never implemented this service and it's not in my plans to do so.

21. I'm new to Findom. What kind of practices should I start with?

I suggest you start with the basics like sending me gifts from my wish list or small contributions. 

22. I'm an experienced "paypig" and familiar with your Findom list. Will you consider practicing other forms of Findom with me? 

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In my opinion, moving on to other forms of findom would only make sense, once you built some kind of "relationship" with your Fin Domme first. And that is only possible by starting with the basics (on my list) besides, I don't see myself moving towards other practices (that are much more serious) in an amateur way, as I see others doing... What I mean by this is that IF I decided to take it to the next level, you would have to sign A REAL CONTRACT, not those "findom agreements" that are a joke in the eyes of the law! I'm sure there are ways of doing it professionally respecting the privacy of both without mentioning any of these activities. But before you would also have to go through a rigorous process of selection... A previous interview with a lawyer would be arranged (to clarify the terms and conditions of a possible deal), your PERSONAL DATA would be analyzed (to figure out if you could afford it without causing any sort of financial ruin/bankruptcy) and I would have to evaluate your psychological profile as well to assure that you're SANE and making a decision VOLUNTARILY and CONSCIOUSLY. I still believe this whole "pay-pigs/money-slaves" hype is very misleading and can go VERY WRONG! The vast majority of "Fin Dommes" that I see out there aren't even experienced with any sort of domination in real time. Apparently, they just do it virtually... Well, I don't believe in easy money and something that is supposed to be fun, and for your sexual arousal can turn into a crime of extortion very easily... Even though no one is pointing a gun at your head and forcing you to do anything, you have the upper hand... so you can sue your Fin Domme whenever you want. I don't trust the word of humans in general and much less that of a slave... Nobody seems to keep their word and agreements nowadays because honor is dead. Well, all of this can be highly controversial and that's why I don't go deeper on financial domination for now.

23. I'm a beginner in the BDSM world. I want to explore it but I'm not into hardcore stuff. I wouldn't say I like being subjected to hard pain, marks, or humiliation. Can you combine some tantric practices with sensual domination in the same session?

Yes, I can combine both services, and I recommend planning a session of 2 hours at least. There are many soft and fun practices that we can play out with... and nothing better than taking the time to explore as much as you can in one session to get the best out of the experience.

24. You seem very precautious. You never show your face or publish photos of your real-time sessions exposing your submissive clients. I also figured that you don't like webcams and don't have any of those free social media platforms. Is privacy a big deal for you?

(long answer, skip it if you're not interested in this topic) 

Absolutely! Nowadays, with the existing technology, keeping our privacy and discretion is an act of wisdom and intelligence. I believe being a private person is extremely important in this activity and that's probably one of the reasons why most clients become my regulars. Because they feel safe going out with me in public or inviting me to their private residences. They sense that I respect their privacy 100% and I know how to separate two different worlds. Just like most of my clients, I also lead and demand respect from others in my real life. And to get it, you have to keep your anonymity and mysteriousness. 

Anyone with brains who values their well-being wants to stay away from full exposure and all kinds of idiots. It's not difficult to conclude that having a well-organized, successful, and peaceful life outside the sex industry will never be possible if you expose yourself everywhere! My persona at work does not mix with my true identity and that's why I don't show my face anywhere and keep it covered. Besides, the country where I work most of the time is my "motherland" while other girls who show their faces come from Brazil and Eastern Europe. Nobody knows them, they do this activity full-time, and it's all they have here basically. They have nothing to lose! It's common to find these women exposing themselves everywhere (webcam sites, free classified ads, free social media platforms, and so on...) Do you think they care about your privacy if they don't even protect theirs? I don't think so. Allowing any sex worker to take pictures of you naked and bound with a dildo in your mouth or together in a jacuzzi (not wearing any mask covering your face) is a HUGE risk and you're either stupid or very naive if you allow such a thing. "What goes on the internet, stays on the internet forever". A man in his right mind will choose carefully with whom he shares his intimacy and spends his time and money!

25. I have a hard time finding a Domme who's demanding and professional but also beautiful and sexy. Most look aged, unattractive, or out of shape. Besides, they're not into teasing, seducing, or intimate worship. They say that these are not "pro-domination" services. However, I know that some pro-dommes do it (and they're quite famous internationally) so I get confused. Aren't both equally considered pro dominatrices or do I have to search for regular escorts who also accept some fetishes to get the experience that I'm looking for?

(very long answer, skip it if you're not interested in this topic)

This is a pertinent question that I get asked all the time. And I'll make this clear, once and for all:

Yes, they're BOTH considered professional dominatrices! Although with different styles and limits. I have noticed that there's a lack of sense of community in the BDSM world from this particular type of dominatrix you refer to. These are frigid menopausal women whose sexuality is repressed. They have no libido or enthusiasm. Many have low self-esteem due to their old or unhealthy appearance, so they try to distort reality and brainwash you by saying that any practice that is more audacious or sexual is forbidden, considered unprofessional, and categorized as "sex work" as if they were not sex workers... (smirk)

Let's get this straight for those out there who think they're better than anyone else and need a "reality slap" to wake up: If the purpose of those women either for a living or as a side-line business is to facilitate the sexual arousal of another human being AND they get money for that service... they are sex workers! Period. It doesn't matter if they sit on your face with panties on or without. If they touch your genitals to tie your balls or to give you a handjob. Playing the "serious woman" card in this specific industry to look superior and diminish other professionals is simply pathetic. What about the open mind and "female empowerment"? These "dominas" are nothing but JEALOUS, FRUSTRATED, and UGLY feminists who deny their sexuality and therefore envy other women's beauty or sex appeal. They know that wherever a hot and spicy woman is present (whether online or in person), she gets all the attention from men and the cold and inauthentic feminist is completely INVISIBLE... no matter how much makeup and fake smiles she puts on. That's why they hate men and envy attractive women so much. This type of resentful "neo-feminist" is the lowest form of life, similar to a parasite. They claim to be "very independent" but rely on their sugar daddies to pay for their rent, to equip their studio with BDSM furniture, and even to correct the stupid stuff they write in English on their website... (low-level and low IQ). They always take advantage of the weakest, oldest, and loneliest men (especially the ones with mental illness). I can smell hateful, petty, disrespectful, manipulative women just by what they write about people whom they never met. I do my job with professionalism, discretion, and most importantly, with consideration and respect for my clients because I apply the golden rule that everyone seems to have forgotten. Unfortunately, the internet and social media made any clown too comfortable with disrespecting others and not getting punched in the face for it. Unlike these women, I don't do this work because I hate men. On the contrary, I do acknowledge that not all men are the same and some of them possess a very positive masculine energy and I do have fun playing and interacting with them in my practice. I enjoy my lifestyle and I'm not ashamed of sharing my new ideas, kinks, sexual fantasies, and desires with my special clients. I do whatever I want whenever I please, and the fact that I attract high-end customers to my energy field (or in this case, to my website) and they recommend my services after meeting me, makes many individuals jealous and willing to try anything to ruin my reputation. What they don't see is that "the spell turns against the sorcerer" very often and every time they attempt to denigrate me, the people who read their stuff become my clients. Their hatred serves me as free publicity. Women who are filled with envy and negativity will always attract other negative weak losers whose testosterone is certainly lower than mine. Those are the only folks they can brainwash and manipulate easily. Without those "simps" who inflate their fragile egos and lick anyone's boots, they wouldn't be able to survive and stick around... I have a lot of experience in different areas of the sex industry and entertainment. I've always worked with my image, and that enabled me to understand very well the psychology of everyone in this game. With that being said, those hypocritical and judgemental service providers should get over themselves and realize that they're not nuns. What they offer is SEX WORK, not the sacred teachings of the bible. Little hungry snakes should think twice before underestimating who's on the other side! It might be a dragoness... Bigger, stronger, wiser, more powerful, and destructive. 

26. I like to switch roles! Will you be submissive as well?

No, I don't switch roles, and I'm not submissive.

27. "I want to" send you my ideas from start to finish, "I want" you to dress in a particular outfit, and "I want to" choose your hairstyle and the color of your nails, is that ok?

Understand that whenever you start your presentation with "I want this and that" followed by an extensive movie script, I will most likely not respond to your request! I do not follow scripts in my work and I am not a barbie that you can dress up! I have a creative freestyle. What I ask of you is a brief summary of your previous experience, practices you would like to try, and your hard limits. Not scripts!

28. Do you have any limits in the BDSM field?

Yes, I do. I'm very open to new BDSM practices, but my limits are:
- I don't do ANY submissive roleplay.
- I don't provide toilet training.
- I will NEVER accept ANY kind of play with animals or kids!

29. Do you travel inside and outside Europe? Is a day trip possible? Do I have to transfer the money first or can I pay when you arrive? Who books your flights?

I travel inside Europe (only) for now. A one-day trip is not possible. 2 days (minimum) must be agreed upon. A deposit of 50% is required + the flight's cost. I would rather book them myself and you book the hotel. When we meet, you pay the other 50% in cash. You can also give me your contact so I can notify you, whenever I come to your city on tour. 

30. I know you're based in Lisbon but would you come to Cascais/Sintra/Ericeira/Peniche for a session? Would you visit me at my villa (private residence) or only at hotels?
Sure, I also operate in those cities near Lisbon. I visit hotels and private villas as well. 

31. I live in the Algarve. Would you come to the south to meet me?
Yes, and we can do it in 2 different ways:
1- You can book me a few days in advance (for 3hrs minimum). A deposit of 50% is required + extra (for travel expenses like tolls and diesel)
2- You can give me your contact (phone number not email) and when I'm on tour in the south, I'll let you know. I generally go there for work on weekends in April, May, June, and September. Makes it easier! You can confirm on the same day and the 3-hour minimum requirement will no longer apply since I'm already around.

32. I have friends/business partners who live here/come here often. If I recommend you, do I get any benefit?

Absolutely. When you recommend me to a friend and he is a respectful customer just like you, I'll reward you by offering 30 minutes. extra in your next session or I can give you a discount if you prefer.

Mistress in Lisbon, Portugal - Catarina

 FINAL NOTES

"I Like to keep it simple. Everything in this life is a transaction and has a price. So, realize that you won't get anything from me without giving something in exchange. My time is precious and unlike other submissive, needy, or physically disadvantaged women, I am not content with compliments, crumbs, and small talk. Trying that game with me will get you nowhere. Being flattered here and there, or popular on free social media platforms is like being rich in the monopoly board game. It's useless! As well as proposing that I work for you and quit my job, promising worlds and funds. It's a waste of your time and mine."

 

"Know how to evaluate an intelligent and ambitious woman when you meet one. I like control, power, freedom, and individuality. I don't need middle-class sugar daddies to cover my expenses because I already have them covered with some financial independence that I achieved throughout the years. I'm not in a place of emotional need, seeking validation, lacking money (or in debt) like most females in this business. I earn quite well, and retirement is still far away, so that means you would have to be a consistent millionaire and confident enough to propose an exclusive deal that would be reasonable for me. If you cannot afford to offer more than what I earn to become your exclusive and travel the world with you (no offense) but it doesn't make sense. Therefore, it shall not even be discussed."

"By entering the financial domination field, make sure you're ready for it. Expect surprises... I will flirt with you, play with your sexual urges, challenge you, and turn you on to get what I want. Finally, I'll reward you in different ways that should be previously stipulated by mutual consent (always respecting the privacy of both). This should work based on discretion and reciprocity (unlike marriages) where you get financially dominated forever (without realizing it) and get nothing but sexual deprivation, frustration, and depression in return. If you're not mature enough for this kind of practice, don't try to force and/or fake it. Choose to be a normal customer instead. You'll always be appreciated and recognized for booking my services again."

- Thank you for your time and attention,

Catarina Bastet

  

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