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Mistress in Lisbon, Portugal - Catarina is the most professional dominatrix in Lisbon, Portugal. Domination, BDSM, Femdom, Kink, Fetish Queen & High-class companion - kinky-cat.com

FAQ (FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS)

1. Do you work with any agency or are you 100% independent?

No agencies, no scams. I'm the boss and I run the show! When you text/call, you talk to me!


2. Are you available 24/7? Can I book you anytime (incall or outcall)?

No, I'm not available all day. My business hours are flexible, but I schedule my sessions mostly in the afternoon and evening. It's easier if you contact me as far in advance as possible if you would like to book my services for a morning or late night. 2 or 3 days prior notice to plan it better or at least 24hrs. Otherwise, it's a question of luck! I might be available at the moment or not. It's important to point out that I'm not a full-time sex worker and I don't stay indoors all day answering calls/texts/emails and waiting for customers. I have other activities and businesses to run in between. I will make time whenever you contact me with a serious intention to book my services. 


3. Do you work from home? Can I meet you at "your place"?
I don't work from home. When you book an incall, you meet me at my workplace (a private studio or a hotel room) never at my house!

4. Do you offer 30 min. sessions?
No. The minimum time for an outcall is 1 hour and an incall is 90 min.


5. Can I negotiate the price?
My 1-hour rate isn't in any case negotiable. When you book me for multiple hours, overnight, travel, or a couple of days, then yes, we can negotiate. If you want to get on my good side, don't try to "bargain" the price. 


6. I had some bad experiences before with fake escorts! How do I know you're real? Can I ask you for face pics or a quick video call?
First of all, I'm verified on every external website where I pay for advertising. You can see a watermark in the photos proving it. Secondly, I have many reviews there from clients who booked my services and recommended me. What I usually do to make you feel safe is to send you a couple of non-professional "selfie" photos taken with a phone at my photoshoots or at my workplace wearing the same outfits that you saw in my ads. I don't send face pics or do any "quick" video calls. 


7. I have a "great deal" to propose to you... Can I meet you first to see you and discuss this? Maybe have a drink with you (for free without any confirmation)?
Of course not. I suggest you stick with dating apps to meet girls for free. In my experience, if you had "a great deal" to propose, you would call directly and go straight to the point instead of texting me with a "tempting offer". I'm open to giving you as much info as possible. But don't ask me to participate in a kind of "audition" ok? I'm an experienced professional, not a beginner. My time is money and if you're not sure if you want to pay for it, don't book it and look for somebody else. Simple as that. 


8. I'm new to all of this. What if I don't like the experience? Can I get a refund?
If you're a "newbie", you might want to relax and start with something soft like one of my sensual massages for example. This way, you can be sure you enjoy the experience with a professional masseuse. I don't refund anybody. And once again, if you're not sure, don't do it. 


9. I'm not 18 years old yet. Can I book a session?
No. I don't accept underage guys. Even if you tell me you're an adult, I'll figure it out on the phone or require you to show me your ID when we meet if I suspect you're still a minor.


10. I'm 21, introvert, autistic, and still a virgin. Would you plan a session with me even with zero experience?
Yes, I would. And it will be important for me to know beforehand about your fantasies, the things you would be comfortable with, and things you wouldn't in a special moment like that. Make sure you read carefully all the services that I offer and take a moment to reflect before you carry on with your decision... Text or email me only when you're sure. I'd appreciate a brief description of your ideal first-time experience.


11. I'm a basic guy. Not interested in any of your kink services or sensual massages. I'm here to figure out if you provide "full-service"? Because it's not clear on your ads if you offer A-LEVEL, OWO, CIM, COF, BBS, MSOG, etc...

I don't provide any of those services, that's why you can't find them in my paid ads. I keep my profile active in very few external websites (only the international ones). So If you find my photos on a local cheap website, it means that someone stole it. All the services that I provide are listed here on my official web page.


12. Do you have a "girlfriend" to join us? Is the other girl included or extra? Are you bi or lesbian?
I do have a nice female colleague. She's an escort, not my "girlfriend" (and obviously) she's not included. Her participation is extra and the session must be planned with anticipation. I'm not bi or lesbian, I'm straight. Meaning, I interact with other women in my practice from a professional standpoint and only in the dynamic of "Mistress and submissive female" roleplay. 


13. Do you work with your "boyfriend"? When I book a cuckolding session, is the other guy included or extra?
Whether you book him for a cuckolding session or other service, his participation is always extra. He's not my "boyfriend" and he's not included. He's a colleague who joins whenever it is necessary, just like the girl does. I work with them occasionally, and once again, planning is required!


14. We are two friends, is the rate the same if there's another guy present and watching?
The rate is always higher whenever there is one more participant. Whether from my side or yours.


15. We are a group of guys organizing a bachelor party and we would like to book one hour of your strip show/lap dance for the bachelor. Would you be open to a private session with him afterward?
Yes, I can do both. But in that case, it would be session of two hours instead of just one for the show.


16. We are a couple, is it the same rate or do I have to pay extra if my GF/wife participates?
Yes, you have to pay extra. If she participates, it's a session for couples. Then again, it's important to emphasize that I'm heterosexual! I don't "go gay for pay" like most female sex workers who lie about their orientation and fake it. I won't perform any lesbian sexual act with your partner. I want you to know what to expect from me without disappointment. 


17. In terms of payments, how does it work? Do I have to pay a deposit first? What if something comes up and I need to cancel? Will you refund me? The girls that I meet regularly accept the payment at the end...
Well, if the girls that you meet regularly let you pay at the end, that's because you're THEIR regular client, not mine. I always ask you for the payment first as a precaution.

This is how I work: When you're interested in booking an incall session, I'll certainly ask you for a deposit of 50% and you can pay the remaining amount in cash when we meet before our session starts. When it's an outcall session (in the city where I am based) the process is simpler! The pre-payment of a deposit won't be required (it's optional) and you can pay me directly in cash when I arrive. If you are calling from a different city, then again, I'll ask you for a deposit. (Read questions 29, 30, 31) for +info about this!

In case something goes wrong and you miss our meeting after paying the deposit of 50% this amount will be kept and used to reschedule a future real-time session.


18. Can I pay with a credit card, PayPal, crypto, or any other method? Or only cash?
You can pay the deposit by other methods. For the remaining amount, I'll require cash. Only regular customers can pay by other methods in full.


19. Different currencies as well or only euros?
I also accept Pounds, Swiss francs, and Dollars. 


20. Do you provide webcam sessions? 
No. I'm not a "cam girl" and I don't work from home. Even with the pandemic outbreak, I never implemented this service and it's not in my plans to do so.

21. I'm new to Findom. What kind of practices should I start with?

I suggest you start with the basics like sending me gifts from my wish list or small contributions. 

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22. I'm an experienced "paypig" and familiar with your Findom list. Will you consider practicing other forms of Findom with me? 

(long answer, skip it if you're not interested in this topic)

In my opinion, moving on to other forms of findom would only make sense, once you built some kind of "relationship" with your Fin Domme first. And that is only possible by starting with the basics (on my list) besides, I don't see myself moving towards other practices (that are much more serious) in an amateur way, as I see others doing... What I mean by this is that IF I decided to take it to the next level, you would have to sign A REAL CONTRACT, not those "findom agreements" that are a joke in the eyes of the law! I'm sure there are ways of doing it professionally respecting the privacy of both without mentioning any of these activities. But before you would also have to go through a rigorous process of selection... A previous interview with a lawyer would be arranged (to clarify the terms and conditions of a possible deal), your PERSONAL DATA would be analyzed (to figure out if you could afford it without causing any sort of financial ruin/bankruptcy) and I would have to evaluate your psychological profile as well to assure that you're SANE and making a decision VOLUNTARILY and CONSCIOUSLY. I still believe this whole "pay-pigs/money-slaves" hype is very misleading and can go VERY WRONG! The vast majority of "Fin Dommes" that I see out there aren't even experienced with any sort of domination in real time. Apparently, they just do it virtually... Well, I don't believe in easy money and something that is supposed to be fun, and for your sexual arousal can turn into a crime of extortion very easily... Even though no one is pointing a gun at your head and forcing you to do anything, you have the upper hand... so you can sue your Fin Domme whenever you want. I don't like the idea of giving that power to a slave! I don't trust humans in general because nobody seems to keep their word and agreements nowadays. Well, all of this can be highly controversial and that's why I don't go deeper on financial domination for now.

23. I'm a beginner in the BDSM world. I want to explore it but I'm not into hardcore stuff. I wouldn't say I like being subjected to hard pain, marks, or humiliation. Can you combine some tantric practices with sensual domination in the same session?

Yes, I can combine both services, and I recommend planning a session of 2 hours at least. There are many soft and fun practices that we can play out with... and nothing better than taking the time to explore as much as you can in one session to get the best out of the experience.

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24. You seem very precautious. You never show your face or publish photos of your real-time sessions exposing your submissive clients. I also figured that you don't like webcams and don't have any of those free social media platforms. Is privacy a big deal for you?

(long answer, skip it if you're not interested in this topic) 

Absolutely! Nowadays, with the existing technology, keeping our privacy and discretion is an act of wisdom and intelligence. Being a private person is extremely important in this activity and that's probably one of the reasons why influential clients become my regulars. Because they feel safe going out with me in public or inviting me to their private residences. These individuals sense that I respect their privacy and know how to separate two worlds. I also lead and demand respect from others in my personal life. Therefore, I understand their point of view and I expect nothing less than the same respect for my anonymity...

Anyone with brains who values their well-being wants to keep their mysteriousness and stay away from full exposure and all kinds of idiots that come along with it. It's not difficult to conclude that having a well-organized, successful, and peaceful life outside the sex industry will never be compatible with showing off and being exposed everywhere! My persona at work does not mix with my true identity and that's why I don't show my face anywhere and keep it covered. Besides, the country where I work most of the time is my "motherland" while other girls who show their faces come from Brazil and Eastern Europe. Nobody knows them, they do this activity full-time, and it's all they have here basically. They have nothing to lose! It's common to find these women exposing themselves everywhere (webcam sites, free classified ads, free social media platforms, and so on...) Do you think they care about your privacy if they don't even protect theirs? I don't think so. Allowing any sex worker to take pictures of you naked and bound with a dildo in your mouth or together in a jacuzzi (not wearing any mask covering your face) is a HUGE risk and you're either stupid or very naive if you allow such a thing. "What goes on the internet, stays on the internet forever". A man in his right mind will choose carefully with whom he shares his intimacy and spends his time and money. 

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25. I have a hard time finding a Domme who's demanding and professional but also beautiful and sexy. Most look aged, unattractive, or out of shape. Besides, they're not into teasing, seducing, or intimate worship. They say that these are not "pro-domination" services. However, I know that some pro-dommes do it (and they're quite famous internationally) so I get confused. Aren't both equally considered pro dominatrices or do I have to search for regular escorts who also accept some fetishes to get the experience that I'm looking for?

(very long answer and rant! Skip it, if you're not interested in this topic)

This is a pertinent question that I get asked all the time. And I'll make this clear, once and for all:

Yes, they're BOTH considered professional dominatrices! Although with different styles and limits. I have noticed that there's a lack of sense of community in the BDSM world from this particular type of dominatrix you refer to. These are frigid and/or menopausal women whose sexuality is repressed. They have no libido or enthusiasm. Many have low self-esteem due to their old or unhealthy appearance, so they try to distort reality and brainwash you by saying that any practice that is more audacious or sexual is forbidden, considered unprofessional, and categorized as "sex work" as if they were not sex workers... (smirk)

Let's get this straight for those out there who think they're better than anyone else and need a "reality slap" to wake up: If the purpose of those women either for a living or as a side-line business is to facilitate the sexual arousal of another human being AND they get money for that service... they are sex workers! Period. It doesn't matter if they sit on your face with panties on or without. If they touch your genitals to tie your balls or to give you a handjob. Playing the "serious woman" card in this specific industry to look superior and diminish other professionals is simply pathetic. What about the open mind and "female empowerment"? These dominas are nothing but jealous, frustrated, and unattractive competitors in the sexual marketplace. They deny their sexuality and therefore envy other women's beauty and allure.They know that wherever a beautiful and hot lady is present (whether online or in person), she gets all the attention from men. Therefore, the cold, inauthentic, and physically disadvantaged woman is completely INVISIBLE... no matter how much makeup and fake smiles she puts on. This type of resentful women are the lowest form of life, similar to a parasite. They claim to be very progressive, feminist, supportive of each other, independent, and empowered, but it's all BS! Misery loves company, and just like a poor and lazy dude sympathizes with another loser and envies a wealthy successful man, the same logic applies to women. The unattractive ones feel threatened by the beautiful ones. And by the way, a woman who's truly strong and independent doesn't rely on her sugar daddy to pay for her rent, to equip her studio with BDSM furniture, and even to correct the stupid stuff she writes in English on her own website... very low-level and low IQ!

It seems to me that nowadays everyone is a self-styled "expert" on the internet. And we are seeing that even in the sex industry... Sounds like a joke, but its not! Their sense of entitlement is hilarious and delusional. "Me, Mistress X, Y, Z... dominatrix, relationship coach, consultant, guru, hypnotherapist, etc, etc..." Con artists of this kind always take advantage of the weakest, ugliest, oldest, and loneliest men (especially the ones with serious mental illness). I can detect hateful, petty, envious, disrespectful, spoiled brat type of lesser female narcissists just by what they write about people whom they never met. I mind my own business and do my job with professionalism, discretion, and most importantly, with consideration and respect for my clients because I apply the "golden rule" that everyone seems to have forgotten. Unfortunately, the internet and social media made any clown too comfortable with disrespecting others and not getting punched in the face for it. Unlike these women, I don't do this work because "I hate men". I'm not emotional about it. I feel for my clients exactly the same that they feel for me. And whether they are positive or negative, beta or alpha, feminine or masculine, in the end of the day, all of them dance to the beat of my drums. I enjoy my lifestyle and I'm not ashamed of sharing my new ideas, kinks, sexual fantasies, and desires with the ones who are most generous and kind to me. I do whatever I want whenever I please, and the fact that I attract high-end customers to my energy field (or in this case, to my website) and they recommend my services after meeting me, makes many individuals uncomfortable and willing to try anything to ruin my reputation. What they don't see is that "the spell turns against the sorcerer" very often and every time they attempt to denigrate me, the person who reads it becomes my client. Their hatred serves me as free publicity. Women who are filled with envy and negativity will always attract other negative weak losers whose testosterone is certainly lower than mine. Without those miserable "simps" who inflate their fragile egos and lick anyone's boots (literally), they wouldn't be able to survive in this business and stick around... I have a lot of experience in different areas of the sex industry because I've been working with my image for many years (since I was a model at the age of 18) and obviously, that enabled me to understand VERY WELL the psychology of everyone in this game. With that being said, those hypocritical and judgmental women should get over themselves and realize that they're not nuns! What they offer is SEX WORK, not the sacred teachings of the bible. Little hungry snakes should think twice before underestimating who's on the other side! It might be a dragoness... Bigger, stronger, wiser, more powerful, and destructive. 

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26. I like to switch roles! Will you be submissive as well?

No, I don't switch roles, and I'm not submissive.

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27. "I want to" send you my ideas from start to finish, "I want" you to dress in a particular outfit, and "I want to" choose your hairstyle and the color of your nails, is that ok?

Understand that whenever you start your presentation with "I want this and that" followed by an extensive movie script, I will most likely not respond to your request! I do not follow scripts in my work and I am not a barbie that you can dress up! I have a creative freestyle. What I ask of you is a brief summary of your previous experience, practices you would like to try, and your hard limits. Not scripts!

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28. Do you have any limits in the BDSM field?

Yes, I do. I'm very open to new BDSM practices, but my limits are:
- I don't do ANY submissive roleplay.
- I don't provide toilet training.
- I will NEVER accept ANY kind of play with animals or kids!

29. Do you travel inside and outside Europe? Is a day trip possible? Do I have to transfer the money first or can I pay when you arrive? Who books your flights?

I travel inside Europe (only) for now. A one-day trip is not possible. 2 days (minimum) must be agreed upon. A deposit of 50% is required + the flight's cost. I would rather book them myself and you book the hotel. When we meet, you pay the other 50% in cash. You can also give me your contact so I can notify you, whenever I come to your city on tour. 

30. I know you're based in Lisbon but would you come to Cascais/Sintra/Ericeira/Peniche for a session? Would you visit me at my villa (private residence) or only at hotels?
Sure, I also operate in those cities near Lisbon. I visit hotels and private villas as well. 

31. I live in the Algarve. Would you come to the south to meet me?
Yes, and we can do it in 2 different ways:
1- You can book me a few days in advance (for 3hrs minimum). A deposit of 50% is required + extra (for travel expenses like tolls and diesel)
2- You can give me your contact (phone number not email) and when I'm on tour in the south, I'll let you know. I generally go there for work on weekends in April, May, June, and September. Makes it easier! You can confirm on the same day and the 3-hour minimum requirement will no longer apply since I'm already around.

32. I have friends/business partners who live here/come here often. If I recommend you, do I get any benefit?

Absolutely. When you recommend me to a friend and he is a respectful customer just like you, I'll reward you by offering 30 minutes. extra in your next session or I can give you a discount if you prefer.

Mistress in Lisbon, Portugal - Catarina

 FINAL NOTES

"I like to keep it simple. Everything in this life is transactional and has a price. There are no free lunches. So, realize that you won't get anything from me without giving something in exchange. My time is precious and unlike other submissive, needy, or physically disadvantaged women, I am not content with compliments, crumbs, and small talk. Trying the "simping" strategy with me will get you nowhere. Being flattered here and there, or popular on free social media platforms is like being rich in the monopoly board game. It's useless! As well as proposing that I work for you and quit my job, promising worlds and funds. It's a waste of your time and mine."

 

"Know how to evaluate an intelligent and ambitious woman when you meet one. I'm a 100% goal-oriented and every thing I do must have a purpose. I live a very healthy lifestyle with freedom, joy, and individuality. My only addiction is power. I get off on it. With that being said, I must mention that I don't look for affairs with middle-class sugar daddies to cover my expenses, because I already have them covered with some financial independence that I achieved throughout the years by myself. I'm not in a place of emotional dysregulation (or need), seeking validation, lacking money (or in debt) like most females in this business. My drive is to improve, evolve, and become more powerful. That requires time, energy, work, and focus on the right things. My attention goes where the money flows and I always aim to have a good time and adventure in the process. I earn quite well (can't complain, I'm very grateful) and I'll make the best of it until the day I retire.

I can see myself closing this chapter for the same reasons that most athletes end their professional careers, not by other external influences... Meaning, a client would have to be a consistent millionaire and confident enough to propose an exclusive deal that would be reasonable for me and make me consider retire before the time. If he cannot afford to offer more than what I earn to become his exclusive and travel the world with him, it shall not even be discussed."

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"By entering the financial domination field, make sure you're ready for it. Expect surprises... I will flirt with you, play with your sexual urges, challenge you, and turn you on to get what I want. Finally, I'll reward you in different ways that should be previously stipulated by mutual consent (always respecting the privacy of both). This should work based on discretion and reciprocity (unlike marriages) where most of you get financially dominated forever and get nothing but sexual deprivation and depression in return. If you're not mature enough for this kind of practice, don't try to force and/or fake it. Choose to be an average customer instead. You'll always be appreciated and recognized for booking my services again."

 

​​Thank you for your time and attention,

See you soon!

Catarina Bastet

  

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